Saw an interview with the wife of that guy that wrote the down low book about gay/bi men married to women who want to have it both ways and are now becoming the blame for HIV in the black community. What irks me is that L-word again: lifestyle. To which I say:
Being an adulterous lying asshole with no regard for the health of your spouse is not a lifestyle. It’s total selfish stupidity.
And it’s not limited to men. Or gays. Or bisexuals. Or straights. Or blacks. Or whites.