“Ruining a marriage is not that easy. You have to cheat, break trust, break vows, break down. A few arguments cannot break a marriage.
The marriage is there to be strong when both of you are weak. The marriage is designed to withstand things like your husband stating in anger that he didn’t want to come home once. He came home anyway, because he’s married and he loves you. He’s married even when circumstances, when You are not the best. You can test and push and swear at your marriage and your marriage sits on a contractual throne and just smiles, knowing it has won and will always win.”
Commenter on Reddit: It’s only a month in, and I’m terrified I’ve just ruined my marriage.